Jim Butcher

We still hadn't learned, though, that growing up is all about getting hurt. And then getting over it. You hurt. You recover. You move on. Odds are pretty good you're just going to get hurt again. But each time, you learn something.

Each time, you come out of it a little stronger, and at some point you realize that there are more flavors of pain than coffee. There's the little empty pain of leaving something behind - graduating, taking the next step forward, walking out of something familiar and safe into the unknown. There's the big, whirling pain of life upending all of your plans and expectations. There's the sharp little pains of failure, and the more obscure aches of successes that didn't give you what you thought they would. There are the vicious, stabbing pains of hopes being torn up. The sweet little pains of finding others, giving them your love, and taking joy in their life as they grow and learn. There's the steady pain of empathy that you shrug off so you can stand beside a wounded friend and help them bear their burdens.

And if you're lucky, very lucky, there are a few blazing hot little pains you feel when you realize that you are standing in a moment of utter perfection, an instant of triumph, or happiness, or mirth which at the same time cannot possibly last - and yet will remain with you for life.

Everyone is down on pain, because they forget something important about it:
Pain is for the living. Only the dead don't feel it.

Comentários

Mauro Cavalcanti disse…
Gosto dos textos e frases que vc escolhe. Muitos me fazem pensar. O que vc faz parece um pouco o Juca de Oliveira que pinça textos, poesias e partes de peças, e declama na Bandnews FM.
Escolhem alguns entre milhares e nos lembram que devemos refletir sobre a vida, além da batalha diária e muitas vezes sem sentido.
Parabéns e obrigado.
Já traduzi esse e outro para uma amiga e até que a barra de ferramentas do google funciona satisfatoriamente para traduzir esse texto.
Mauro!
obrigada pelo comentário, fico muito feliz!
que legal essa do juca na bandnews, não sabia, mas vou tentar acompanhar daqui pra frente! boa dica!
sempre gostei de colecionar frases, desde pequena, só que de um tempo pra cá elas realmente têm esse fundo de fazer a gente pensar mais na vida... ajuda quando a gente vê o que outros fizeram e tiraram das mesmas situações, né?
obrigada de novo, volte sempre!
Ju

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